Modern Dilemma: when your friends’ child is caught stealing

Your friends' 18 year old son is caught stealing at the local supermarket where he works and was sacked as a result.

The police weren't called, and you're confident his parents don't know about it.

Should you tell them?

Author and columnist for the Age, Monica Dux and architect and father of older children, Neill Johanson weigh in on this one.